4 Danger Too Often Curhat to Friend

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You'll often spend time with her friends over dinner or coffee. Performed even chat about the annoying boss in the office, romance issues, gossip, and various other topics.

But be careful, sometimes sharing about your problem to friends do not always able to reduce your burden, but also can harm you. Reported by Idiva, here are some things that make the vent to a friend can turn into a boomerang for you.

1. Calmness moment

Most of us are always going to find a friend when you're having problems. When you share your concerns with them,
you'll tend to feel close and intimate bond is to build self-confidence. Vent about the problems we face will make us feel better.

This happens because when women talk about a problem, the body will trigger a chemical reaction in the brain that the reaction is similar to the effects of taking heroin to 'float'. Feeling better when we get support from others.

Maybe pour your heart's content when depressed to a close friend will seem like a reasonable thing to do but this is not the wisest way, because the effects of excessive comfort will make you to continue to talk and unload everything about yourself. This was not necessarily want to hear your friend.

2. Problem Draw

According to recent research conducted by the University of Missouri, the tendency of women vent excessive and persistent, will make their problem bigger. This is because a sense of fear makes them stuck in negative thoughts, which then becomes a sense of panic, depression and stress. Moreover, in certain cases, this turns into an unhealthy emotional anxiety.

3. Never Satisfied

When a woman talk about their problems, it is difficult to put two points of view the problem simultaneously. Effects downside is you can make friends become uncomfortable. Neeha Pathak, a media professional to agree to that, "I usually do a session with two close friends confide in me. I noticed sometimes I feel worse after talking with them about my problems".

When you talk about the problem, there is a tendency to over-analyze the situation and asking friends to give different advice for the same problem, which at times can make you feel more anxious. Advice from a friend that will never satisfy you and you keep asking more advice. During this process, you will always talk about the problem.

4. Spread

This phenomenon is very common among women, psychologists call it 'emotional contagion behavior' or 'contagious fear' in which a person's negative thoughts can affect the moods of others. Believe it or not, studies have shown that people who are constantly in touch with others who suffer from depression, depression tends to follow. While the men think, vent will only make the problem bigger so they choose to do other activities to distract them.